It’s the time of year again where your relationship is hinged on buying the perfect gift for your significant other. You are faced with the daunting task of imagining what gift your girlfriend has been hinting at for the past month, running the risk of ruining her life if you guess wrong. And your boyfriend seemingly doesn’t even care what you get him, which annoys you because you want him to put as much thought into gifts as you do. In the end, your boy disappoints you with a dumb Sephora bath set and your girl gets you a GameStop gift card as if the only thing you ever do is play video games.

Here are gift ideas for both genders so you don’t leave your boo dissatisfied as usual.

GIRLS:

Most likely, she’s been dropping hints as to what she wants so if you haven’t been paying attention, it’s your fault and she deserves to be angry at you. Just kidding. Girls are confusing when it comes to gifts. She won’t tell you outright what she wants, but what she wants is confusing and specific. Good news is, you still have a few weeks. Take her shopping at her favorite stores and pay close attention to what she has her eye on instead of ogling the Victoria’s Secret posters.

If that’s out of the question, get her what every girl wants: something personal that shows you know about her. Buy her a collector’s edition of her favorite book or movie and burn her a mix tape of her favorite songs. Include her favorite candies, foods, and magazine. If you don’t know any of her favorite movies, books, candies, foods, or magazines, just buy her a Lego set and break up.

GUYS:

Most likely, guys want something that will last beyond the scope of your relationship.

Buy him necessities, like a nice new leather wallet to replace the ugly duct-tape one you get embarrassed by when he pulls it out at Chipotle. Watches and belts are also good bets. Anything leather is nice smelling and super classy and he can keep it forever.